Does Kinesiology Work for Men?
The basis of Kinesiology is to enable change – and yes, that’s for Men too!
The simple answer is if course – YES, Kinesiology helps Men!
Kinesiology is the study of movement – of thoughts, beliefs, emotions, fascia, blood, muscles and energies.
“He understood well enough how a man with a choice between pride and responsibility will almost always choose pride–if responsibility robs him of his manhood.”
― The Running Man
Little boys becoming Men..
On the whole, Little boys are not taught to regulate their emotions – but to suppress them.
‘Get Up’, ‘You’re not hurt’, ‘stop crying’, ‘be stronger’…
We teach our boys that emotion is wrong and bad…
At school, boys learn that weakness or vulnerability is close to death… they learn to show nothing – they learn to suppress, ignore, delete or negate their emotions, needs and innate nature.
When the boy grows up, heading into Manhood, he is already full to the brim with suppressed, blocked and stagnant emotion – energy that is closed, heavy and full of false expectations. .
As men, life happens and hard things come to him…
As men, life happens and it gets confusing…
As men, life happens the weight if it all gets overwhelming…
As men, their bodies change and begin to show the suppressed emotions, as pain or illness..
Without understanding, guidance and the tools.. of how to safely & confidently feel – hurt or confused or lost, and of course, how to self-regulate in these states…
Men tend to find anger, or be over-controlling, or find more ‘adult’ ways to numb the feelings… addiction, over-work etc.
I have worked in a male-dominated industry since I was 18 – yes, a long time!
I have seen all variations of men in all sorts of states – the best and the worst of them.
I am a practical being – and that’s what most men lean towards…
I am a creative and intuitive person, and that helps see what’s beneath the anger and control.
When a man feels out of control, weakened, or unbalanced, it can be difficult to admit it, let alone ask for help!
Feel strong and powerful and in-control again is a perfectly natural place to want to be!
- Wanting your relationships to feel easy and light…
- Wanting your body to flow and respond with ease..
- Wanting your self-talk to release the judgement…
- Wanting your self-image to reflect your innate and individual persona..
The men I have worked with, guided and helped in clinic, come from all walks of life, from all age groups and even all nations..
The men who leave my care feel more confident, at ease, calm – being more aware of their reactions, responses, nervous system upheavals and traumas – so that life is easier, more stable and balanced.
The balance of Yin & Yang – the energy of masculine and feminine – within each of us is imperative for a calm and peaceful life.
Men are often actively discouraged from resting in or exploring their Yin – care, stillness, nurture and intuitive knowing.
However, when there is pain, confusion, anger, frustration, or fear, it is only in the balancing of these opposite energies within, Yin & Yang, that a man can find his centre, confidence and calm.
This balance of Yin & Yang energies creates the balance of
Wisdom – Knowledge
Intuitive Knowing – Pride
Being – Doing
Trust – Control
Compassion – Power
Giving – Receiving
So…
It is ONLY in the balancing of these opposites, that a man can heal, find self-trust, and grow inner-confidence.
What can Kinesiology help Men with?
- You may have lost your job and feel lost…
- physical pain and can’t cope any more…
- trouble sleeping and are exhausted…
- You may be having relationship issues and want clarity..
- digestive issues and want relief…
- anxiety and want strategies to love differently…
- You may just not feel like yourself, and want to reclaim yourself…
- long held trauma that you want cleared…
Kinesiology with Lisa will help with all or any of these.
You will feel balanced, clear, light and strong again.
You may need help to regain your confidence & calm – Book a session with Lisa today!
Do you need support through balancing your Yin &Yang, Book a session with Lisa!
If you would like to discuss how you will be different after working with Lisa, book in a Curiosity Chat with Lisa – click here.
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